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I had M.E. for over 10 years and recovered very quickly with The Phil Parker Lightning Process. I am now dedicated to helping others get better too. I love my work and am passionate about it.

Friday, 29 July 2011

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Thank you to my wonderful clients in Winchester this week. They have all
conquered ME with The Phil Parker Lightning Process. It was a pleasure to
work with them & JJ gaves us lots of laughs about fear of frogs! ('in'
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Tuesday, 26 July 2011

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If you aren't happy, why aren't you?
Chances are it is because you want something which you do not have, objects or conditions. This is probably not a good enough reason and a review of your situation and perceptions may be in order.

You may have seen video of children in very poor countries laughing and playing, unconcerned that they should have more to be happy about. They are happy because they are playing, because they have their friends and family, and some food to eat that day. Everyone has the right to be happy, and if they can be in their situation, shouldn't you?

"Happiness consists more in small conveniences of pleasures that occur every day, than in great pieces of good fortune that happen but seldom to a man in the course of his life." - Ben Franklin (1706-1790)

Happiness is inside us, in our minds, in our thinking. It is not external material things or experiences, but the enjoyment of our thoughts and feelings. This is good because our thoughts, and therefore our happiness, are up to us.

Start by reviewing the things that you have to be happy about and dwell on these. Don't overlook the little or basic things that you take for granted.

Make a habit of substituting unhappy thoughts with happy thoughts. Whenever an unfavourable picture enters your mind, eject it and replace it with a pleasant one. We all have some nice experiences to recollect and there are usually little pleasures around us most of the time. You can even imagine enjoyable experiences, and it will have a similar positive effect.

"Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you." - Nathaniel Hawthorne (1804-1864)

Establish good principles and conduct yourself according to these principles. Love, or at least be tolerant of, your fellow humans. Don't strive too hard for that which, in the end, will not make you happier.

Wednesday, 20 July 2011

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One of the secrets of success is to not work so hard with your physical body; instead, use your mind to work out the details of how to be the person you want to be. Are you motivated to spend 10 minutes a day envisioning the future you want to create for yourself?

By deliberately mentally rehearsing the experience of success in your mind, you can turn aspirations into realities. See yourself free from the old negative habits that have wasted your time, energy, and money. Forget willpower for now and imagine yourself with positive behaviours. See yourself handling any challenging situation that normally triggers your old habits and see yourself using new strategies and doing it with ease.

Success experts say your imagination is your own personal workshop of the mind. This is particularly true when you want to program yourself towards new habits of success.

Visualize Yourself as the Person You Want to Be with Mental Rehearsal.

Mental rehearsal is the most powerful way to tap into your creative process and overcome old behaviour patterns. Mental rehearsal can be used in all areas of your life, from seeing yourself as a non smoker, seeing yourself as the weight and size you want to be, and even seeing yourself as calm during challenging times.

Mental rehearsal is a tool that can help you reduce the effects of stressful situations. Now you will be more resourceful, reducing the possibility of reverting to your old habits. All areas in your life can benefit from imagery. It doesn’t matter what level your goals are on: physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual.

Use visualization to improve your abilities. Because the body follows the mind, if you start seeing yourself in a different light, then your body will follow suit — maybe by not craving the things that hurt you, or by motivating you to exercise more. It’s up to you to experiment. Who knows what miracles you can create in your life by using this powerful tool?

Therapists who recommend using mental rehearsal say it is the true key to tap your potential. Their research reveals that all of our skills are learned through the image-making process, whether it’s driving a car, reading a book, or changing a habit.

You use your mind to picture the activity before you actually perform it. Think of it like this: Your mind works like a movie projector, screening an endless reel of memories and scenes of situations both real and imagined. You have the power to direct your movie projector (your mind) to reach your desired goals. Once you imagine something new for yourself, you begin to be flooded with ideas about how to realize that image. All of this will come about when you have allowed yourself to break through your own worst limitation, what you believe are your capabilities.

Tuesday, 19 July 2011

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A lovely email from a client of mine (Brenda) who attended the Lightning
Process a couple of weeks ago. In her own words :-
"I can't believe the difference that the Lightning Process has made not
only to me but my family. Within two weeks of my training I have gone from
tired all the time to inspired all the time! I have a new lease of life &
the positivity to match. I am in control of my life & my body.

My son & I attended the course together & yesterday we went for a bike
ride for the first time in four years. We have experienced changes that
range from apparently small things to massive ones. Added together these
achievements are nothing short of incredible, if we can do it, so can
anybody! Thank you Donna for your respectful understanding of our previous
health issues, your wisdom, & the insightful way that you helped us to
make the changes we needed to to help ourselves!"

Thursday, 14 July 2011

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Do you dream of a better life, more money, healthy loving relationships, greater freedom, more job satisfaction and reaching all those long cherished goals? Ask yourself why you haven’t achieved them yet. I bet you can come up with a dozen or more excuses. However, if most people are honest with themselves there is only one reason why their life stays the same, year in and year out!

One of the biggest problems for people is procrastination. A failure to act on your desires is usually the main reason why people fail to increase their lot in life.

The simple truth is everyone procrastinates. However, the difference between really successful people, people who achieve average success and people who stay stuck, is their level of action!

Most people know what needs to be done to get the things, situations and outcomes they desire. However, they fail to even try to get them. This isn’t just a simple case of laziness. Many times there are deep rooted feelings of fear, insecurity and emotional blocks. They make excuses as to why they shouldn’t bother or why they deserve to sit in front of the TV after a hard day at work!

You can study all the personal development and self improvement material in the world. You can buy and listen to the best business seminars, books and DVDs but unless the knowledge is applied it is worse than useless – it just wastes your precious time. There is no substitute for taking action, even incorrect action!

Persistence is one of the key elements of success. Edison failed 9,999 times until on his ten thousandth attempt he created the electric light bulb. When asked about this his reply was simple but profound, “I didn’t fail 9,999 times, I just found 9,999 ways that didn’t work!”

Edison had persistence. He wasn’t afraid to try and fail because he knew there is no such thing as failure if you never give up. When it looks like your approach didn’t work take heart. You have just found another way that doesn’t work and this gets you closer to finding the way that does work.

However, as I have previously said most people already know what they need to do in order to get the outcome they are seeking. We live in the Information Technology Age. Information on every subject is available to us at our fingertips if we just care to look. Perhaps you are putting-off even doing that.

So stop procrastinating now and go do what you know will work or find out what will!
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See for yourself how my clients have used The Phil Parker Lightning Process to turn their lives around. That is your first step ...

Tuesday, 12 July 2011

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If you want to learn the true art of mind power then it is of the greatest importance you understand 2 functions of your mind, and also how they interact with each other…

You only possess one mind, but it has 2 totally different functions - and the names generally used to distinguish these 2 different functions are as follows.

1, The Conscious Mind
2, The Subconscious Mind

There are many other terms used. But the 2 listed above, are the ones used most to represent the 2 main functions of your mind.

To help us better understand the conscious and subconscious mind, they may be compared to a tree and its roots…

• You’re conscious mind being the tree, which helps you with daily situations like, decision-making, rational thinking, or just simply figuring out what to do and how best to do it.

When we think of ‘me’ we think of our conscious mind, the mind of which we are fully aware. This part of the mind makes decisions for us and directs our activities; it also analyzes, criticises and even commands us.

• You’re subconscious mind being the roots; it deals mostly with the repetitions of learned behaviour. This can be very helpful for you, as it enables you to deal with situations much more easily the next time they arise.

Whatever we see, hear, smell, taste, touch or feel passes through the conscious mind and reaches the subconscious mind where it is stored.

Once you have learned how best to deal with the situation you find it much easier the next time around… this is because you are using information which is already stored.

For instance, once you have learned to ride a bike you don’t have to consciously think about it anymore. This is because the stored information will come to you automatically the next time you get on your bike to ride it.

Just as if you were to learn where each letter on your keyboard is - you can now type without looking because you have formed a mental picture in your subconscious mind, of what the keyboard actually looks like.

The above are only two instances (of how the subconscious mind stores up relations of learned behaviour) and we are sure you would be able to find many more examples of this in your everyday life!

Information from the conscious mind gets past into the subconscious mind, and there is a very strong link between the two. It is said that everything you have ever seen, heard and experienced is perceived by your conscious mind, and then stored away into your subconscious mind as a memory.

Not only is this memory stored as the incident itself, but also any feelings which went with it at the time are also stored.

Your subconscious mind does not only store your memories and feelings. It is the maker of all the great ideas you have ever had, and is also the seat of your intuition and creativeness…

Your subconscious also keeps you going without you even being aware of it. It takes care of your bodily functions – your heart beat, and automatically runs such activities as, movement, language, visual perception and a whole host of other processes of your mind and body for you.

It also scans your mind for conflict and distress; assesses your environment for danger and threats, and relays and interprets perceptions, sensations, and feeling… last but not least it is also the storehouse of all your experience and decisions – everything which makes you the person you are.

Friday, 8 July 2011

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Thank you Hazel, Ben & Brenda who did The Phil Parker Lightning Process
this week at The Wimborne Clinic. I had such fun working with them and all
3 have made incredible changes physically, mentally & emotionally. Well
done to them! A wonderful journey.

Tuesday, 5 July 2011

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"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to suit himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man." -- George Bernard Shaw

Monday, 4 July 2011

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Learn to recognise the signs before you end up in a crumpled heap!

Stress - it’s part of life isn’t it? Stress is good!

We subject ourselves to stress all the time, we need some stress, at work
and in our daily lives. Without pressure and stress we would simply get
nothing done, we wouldn’t achieve anything! Stress is a positive force
when it invigorates your life and enables you to realise your dreams. So,
the more, the better then?

Well, think about it for a moment and be careful what you wish for. Just
as we need oxygen in the air that we breathe to survive, pure oxygen will
kill us. So it is with stress, we need some, but at what point does stress
then becomes counter productive and a destructive force in our lives?

How do YOU perceive stress?

Do you need the “Buzz” of that last minute deadline?
Do you get a “Rush” from the responsibilities of a high-pressure situation?
Do you get a “High” by creating a situation that produces anger or fear?
Do you say to your workmates “I thrive on stress”?
Do you “live in fear” for your job?
Do you “Worry” constantly about your abilities at work?
Do you “Fear” competition at work?
Do you “Change” behind the wheel of your car?

Our physiological response to stress manifests itself in our bodies, by
producing stimulants and other stress hormones, which act as mood altering
devices, so we become much less conscious of pain, both physical and
mental. We can set ourselves a dangerous precedent here, if we choose to
ignore the signs that our bodies use to warn us that we are making
ourselves vunerable to breakdown. Ignore this advice at your peril!

A common symptom of stress is a person’s lack of respect for and enjoyment
of, eating. The stimulants and other stress hormones which makes us tired,
irritable and angry, totally disrupts our digestive function. We also tend
to make poor choices about eating when we’re stressed either through time
constraints or a desire to eat comfort food. According to your disposition
this will either cause a loss of appetite, depleting your body of
vitamins, minerals and nutrients, leading to weight loss and poor health,
or weight gain, through a diet of junk food eaten in a rush, leading to
digestive disorders and other weight-related problems. Poor nutrition will
further weaken your resistance to illness and allow other symptoms of
stress to develop. It’s a downward spiral.

Stress hormones are immensely powerful and have side effects that can
quite literally kill you. Stress becomes a bad thing when it reaches a
level beyond which you feel in control any longer, when you find yourself
feeling tense, tired and uncomfortable.
It’s not just the guy that seems most likely to drop dead from a stroke or
a heart attack that’s at risk here. Stress hormones can contribute to
ulcers and other severe gastro-intestinal problems, diabetes, high blood
pressure and heart disease. These chemicals are also causal factors in a
host of psychological problems such as depression and anxiety. It can also
weaken the immune system, which makes you more susceptible to illness and
affects the body’s ability to heal.

Ask yourself - am I stressed or am I in denial?
How much stress is too much stress?

Well, we’re all unique, and everyone experiences stress differently.

So how do we go about recognising the signs before it becomes a serious
problem?
First, check the following lists and be honest with yourself. If you start
to exhibit some of these symptoms, they may be warning signs that your
stress levels are becoming a cause for concern. Your body and your
emotions are attempting to give you a “wake-up” call. Listen to what your
body is telling you.

- Upset stomach
- Stomach pains
- Loss of appetite
- Severe headaches
- Dizziness
- Irritability
- Nervous Tick or Blinking
- Insomnia
- Chronic fatigue
- Pain in the neck and shoulders and back
- Stiff neck and shoulders or back
- Teeth Grinding
- Poor focus and memory

How you feel can indicate signs of stress too, look for the following:
- Anxious
- Depressed
- Frustrated
- Hustled
- Overloaded
- Pressured
- Tense
- Worried

Identifying stress at the early stages makes it so much easier to treat.
Good habits can be adopted to ensure that you have a good work/life
balance and stress reduction becomes a manageable exercise.

Learn to recognise the signs that stress is starting to build up and be
prepared to act quickly on the problems causing this, because problems
seem to grow in intensity if they are not dealt with. The relief will be
instant and you’ll be glad that you did.
It’s important to realise that you always have choices and learning how to
properly manage stress will make you a happier person and really will
improve your life.

If we are honest with ourselves, we can recognise the signs that stress is
reaching an abnormal level, but of course it’s different for everyone. The
situation can become more serious when the sufferer is in denial of the
obvious, when stress levels can then reach intolerable levels before the
sufferer has a serious, sometimes catastrophic health crisis.

Stress can cause serious illness and even if it doesn't go on to do that;
it can make you thoroughly miserable in the meantime. This article isn't
supposed to scare, but to make you aware and to inspire you to take
preventative action before it’s too late.

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The Phil Parker Lightning Process can help you.